I met a friends ex-wife today and at first she didn’t recognise me at all but then she worked out, after 30 minutes, who I used to be and was quite obnoxious about my transition and started to ask some very personal questions.
She then wondered why I got quite defensive in my replies until I said “that’s not important to my life anymore, Why’s it important to yours? Why do you think you’ve got a right to ask me about my sexuality in that manner?”
“What I choose to do with my own body is no one else’s concern, let alone someone who’s invited herself over to sit at my table?”
She then got all offended, “I only asked a question!” and I actually told her to f off. Which made my other friends very uncomfortable.
The fact none of us wanted to speak to her in the first place, says what a nice person she is, but because she invited herself over and sat down at our table this was made clear to her.
I get that some people are curious but don’t be asking personal, impertinent questions which you know will either be offensive or at the very least cause upset, especially when if I asked you the same questions you’d be annoyed about it.
She took the huff and walked off which I got a big of grief for from my other friends, but she deserved that as she was so rude.
I explained why I’d gotten annoyed which my friends understood.
Apparently, she’s messaged one of my friends later to ask what my problem is!
My friend has told her she was bang out of order and had no right asking me what she asked.
Livid!
