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Pride Events 2023

This is a list of 2023 Pride events, I’ve been compiling. This will grow as I find out more pride events 2023, and add them to the list. If you have an event that isn’t on the list below, please email me at prideevents@mikkitiamo.com The list below is currently only in the UK but also …

John o’Groats and Dunnet Head

Day three of Mikki's highlands of Scotland Adventure was to John o'Groats and Dunnet head. I also went to a few other places while up here and I might write something about those on another blog. For those that don't know John o'Groats and Dunnet head are the most northerly places in Great Britain. John …

Urquhart Castle, Loch Ness, Scotland

Urquhart Castle is in the Highlands of Scotland near Drumnadrochit close to Inverness and is a ruined castle that sits beside and overlooks Loch Ness. As I drove from Fort William towards Inverness I stopped to have a look around at this old castle. This medieval castle dates from the 13th to 15th century but …

Changing gender on your medical records.

This post is about problems you might experience with changing gender on your medical records and one person’s problems after having done this. The post was originally placed on the Facebook group, Transgender UK (Support Group). Posted on 10th December 2022. So, I’m normally not the person to come running to Facebook to complain but …

Mikki You’re Beautiful

Mikki, you're beautiful, is what people say to me. Some say it to me, now and then, others frequently. I hear this quite a lot, and strange as it may seem. The words I hear and what I see, are two completely different things. My body dysphoria makes me see, stranger things. That other people …

Crystal kids 2022 at Rebellion, Manchester

Wow, just wow! What a night Crystal Kids 2022 has been. Crystal Kids was held at Rebellion which is next to Deansgate Train station. The club is well maintained and well run with nice friendly staff with a large bar area and two sound stages/dance floors at opposite ends of the club. Yet again, the …

Am I mental for saying this?

I’ve asked myself this a lot over the past few weeks and I’m still not sure that am I mental? I told one of my friends that I didn’t just love her but I was falling in love with her, which I am, was, am, argh! Yes! OMG!! When I’m around her I feel a …

Misgendered by a friend

One of the problems with being trans is being misgendered. I get it now and again and if you go down the transitioning road so will you! Irrespective of which way you transition, male to female or a female to male transgender, people will either misrepresent your pronouns or use them against you. Whether they …

Dysphoria day

Last night I got absolutely trashed and today I have a hang over I just can't look at myself in the mirror again! It's going to be a dysphoria day. I'm looking really bad this morning as I'm sure I cried myself to sleep again last night. I have puffy eyes and their bright red. …

Alice’s Story – RIP Alice Litman

I don't often post text from other sites on the internet, but this story has touched me so much. The story of Alice Litman. Read the story, and this is some reminiscent of many Trans people in the UK. Taken from the Instagram account of @lovesuzifox My synopsis is at the bottom of the page …

Trans-Remembrance Day 2022 in Sackville gardens, Manchester

Well, it's November the 20th and that means it's Trans-Remembrance Day and I'm down in the gay village in Manchester at Sackville gardens for the annual Trans remembrance vigil which marks the end of Trans Awareness Week. To date in 2022, there have been 331 reported killings of trans people worldwide. We need to remember …

Being Alone

If you’re going to go down the road and embrace your transition, then you’d better get used to being alone. First of all, I’m not talking about being on your own socially. I’m talking about being on your own romantically. I’m not short of sexual contact but what I am short of is a long-term …

Doctors again, again!

Yes, again I’m compelled to write about my doctor’s. and yes, I’m getting really fucked off with the shit service! I feel like I’m belly aching for belly aching’s sake but after last week I thought they’d sorted out my name change. Alas, no! I’d booked an appointment last week, after last weeks fiasco, I …

A time for Remembrance and Reflection – Sunday 20th Nov in Sackville gardens, Manchester

A TIME FOR REMEMBRANCE AND REFLECTION Come along to this if you're Trans or a Trans Ally and join in. I will be trying my hardest to get back to Manchester on Sunday for this. Sunday 20th November 17:15 onwards, Sackville Gardens, Sackville Street, Manchester M1 3WA Join Sparkle – The National Transgender Charity and …

Affecting my mental happinesss

You know whether I can’t deal with listening to other people’s problems anymore, its affecting my mental happiness! I’m a very caring person but I am absolutely pig sick of people using me as a dumping ground for their problems especially when as soon as they arrive they disappear! It has to stop as its …

Am I going mad or is it separation anxiety

I can’t deal with this anymore, my mental process is well and truly screwed up. Am I going mad or is it separation anxiety? I sit with some people for just a few hours and it feels like I’ve been sat with them for all my life and then when we separate I get massive …

What is it with my doctor’s? Again!

Yet again I have to ask the question, what is it with my doctors? This morning I’ve been in to collect a blood test form and even after changing my name over 2 years ago, they’re still referring to me by my previous name. When I questioned this with the receptionist she said that my …

Estrogen Gel back in stock

After September this year, I am now back on estradiol as it’s back in stock after previous supply issues earlier in the year which forced me to change my HRT to oestrogen patches. Unfortunately, the patches were not as effective as the gel that ive been on for the past two years and at a …

Birthday Thanks

On this day of my birth I hope you can see I’m happy with life As happy can be I’d like to say thank you To all of my friends For helping, me be me Filled with happiness and glee I’m 52 today Enjoying all this life So thanks, to you all For saying happy …

Progesterone or depression?

I’ve been on progesterone now for a month and a half and for the past 2 weeks my mental state has been awful. I’m not saying it is the progesterone but it’s got me thinking! I’m not talking little waves of emotion here, I’m talking like massive elation down to almost suicidal thoughts. Today’s been …