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The fears of Transgender People and the rise of Transphobia in the UK

I’m writing this article as I am a Transgender person and these are the fears of Transgender people in the UK at the moment (May 2023). These are some of the issues we are now facing as transgender people on a daily basis, and I’ll come onto why below. First off lets address the internal …

What is Transphobia?

Transphobia is a form of prejudice and discrimination aimed against transgender people. It can be in many different forms, from verbal abuse, physical violence, and discrimination in employment, housing, and healthcare. Transphobia is often based on the belief that transgender people are not valid or that they are something less than a cisgender people. This …

What is Body Dysphoria

Just what is Body Dysphoria? Body dysphoria is a mental health condition in which a person has a distorted view of their body. It is said that it effects between 1 in 50 people across the general population. It can also be linked to gender dysphoria which is when you are not comfortable in the …

What is Gender Dysphoria?

What is Gender Dysphoria? Gender dysphoria is a condition in which a person’s gender identity does not match the sex they were assigned at birth. This can cause a person to feel distress and/or discomfort with their body and/or gender role. As to whether or not Gender dysphoria is mental illness, it depends on who …

Carlisle Castle

I haven't posted in a while because I've been away on holiday and one of the places I visited was Carlisle Castle. Carlisle Castle is almost in the heart of the city and if you're driving through Carlisle you cant help but drive past or see the castle. I'm not going to go into the …

The effects of Spironolactone after two weeks

These are the effects of Spironolactone on me over the past two weeks, as I’ve been taking Spironolactone as a hormone drug for the past two weeks. As a testosterone suppressant. There has been a shortage of Synarel, the testosterone blocker, hence the change to Spironolactone . This switch did cause me a massive headache, …

Transgender myths, how Transgender people are portrayed in the media

I’ve been thinking about the transgender myths going around and just how transgender gender people are portrayed in the media and political world. Myths with aren’t quite “real world”, now are they? Here’s some transgender myths explored but before I get into them, some might be asking, “just how would I know?” Well, I have …

Shanti Barn Party

Shanti Barn Party is the latest Psytrance event i've been to and was held in the deepest recesses of the Lake District on the 15th and 16th April. It was amazing. From the location which had stunning scenery through 360 degrees around the campsite to the amazing decorations inside the event barn. Large dancefloor and …

Equality and Human Rights law

The UK government is seeking to rewrite the Equality and Human Rights law which could see trans people excluded from single sex spaces. Plan to change Equality Act will ban trans people from single-sex spaces, charities warn | ITV News I have grave concerns over this first and foremost, that the government is seeking to …

When I don’t believe in myself

When I don’t believe in myself I sit and reflect on my life The good and the bad times The struggles and the strife When I don’t believe in myself I ponder on the things I’ve done What I’ve accomplished over the years The times that made me happy, and the times that things were …

The term Cis woman

Let’s get this straight I do not like the term “cis women. This is not because I’m some hateful, spiteful trans person, I’m not. I just think it’s wrong to label women as anything other than, women. As a transgender person, who is transitioning from male to female one of the things that is making …

31/03 is Transgender Day of Visibility

31st of March is Transgender Day of Visibility. I am Mikki and I am Transgender and my pronouns are She/Her. Today we, the transgender community, celebrate Transgender Day of Visibility to highlight the difficulties facing our community. These are political attacks, discrimination, inadequate healthcare, violence, hate and ignorance. We need your support, now more than …

Coming out as trans to your family

If you are transgender then coming out as trans to your family is one of the hardest things that you will have to cope with on your journey. Of course, this is second only to dealing with the medical & governmental professions! I’m writing this so that others who are approaching the subject with their …

Call me what you will but it will influence how I speak to you

After my little out burst last week about people misgendering me, I’ve given this a lot of thought and I really think that you can call me what you will, but remember it will influence how I speak to you as well! That’s not a threat by the way. I’m not going to try and …

Brianna Ghey Murder

As a transgender person myself, I must admit that I’ve been given the Brianna Ghey murder a lot of thought over the past couple of days, and I’ve actually been quite distraught about it. The very fact that this young girl has died is terrible but I’m also very angry about the manner in which …

Lets get fucked up!

Its Friday, and its payday. Time to get fucked up, big time, hey! Bottle of tequila, salt and a lime. Lets drink loads of alcohol, get fucked up big time Havent drunk for 3 months, but already got a taste Looks like this weekend, I’m going to waste Don’t give a fuck, I need to …

The fall out

After yesterday’s post about me being done with folk I did actually block many of the people who’ve misgendering me over the past few weeks and yesterday / today I’ve been dealing with the fallout of actually doing this. One of those people, I completely blocked, I know they’ll probably be reading this and I can’t …

Done with folk

This past week has been one of those weeks where I just don’t want to deal with anyone and I’m done with folk! It’s to exhausting and depressing to argue or even try to correct you anymore. A week where I’ve been called “he” and “him” again by numerous “friends”. It’s too exhausting and depressing …

Inept, Stupid or Just dont give a shit. Doctors Again!!

Are my doctors inept, stupid, or just don’t give a shit? Following on from last week when my care provider, Gender GP, requested that I have a blood test to swap the prescription drugs that I am on, they sent a request to my doctors. I even went into the doctor’s surgery to confirm that …

Dealing with the Doctors again, again. Slow NHS service

Yet again I feel let down by my GP as despite using a private clinic to prescribe my drugs I still have to rely on the NHS to do my blood tests as after two years they deemed me important enough to agree to do my blood test to monitor my hormone levels. Well this …