If you are transgender then coming out as trans to your family is one of the hardest things that you will have to cope with on your journey. Of course, this is second only to dealing with the medical & governmental professions! I’m writing this so that others who are approaching the subject with their …
Dysphoria
The fall out
After yesterday’s post about me being done with folk I did actually block many of the people who’ve misgendering me over the past few weeks and yesterday / today I’ve been dealing with the fallout of actually doing this. One of those people, I completely blocked, I know they’ll probably be reading this and I can’t …
Done with folk
This past week has been one of those weeks where I just don’t want to deal with anyone and I’m done with folk! It’s to exhausting and depressing to argue or even try to correct you anymore. A week where I’ve been called “he” and “him” again by numerous “friends”. It’s too exhausting and depressing …
Misgendered
I am really struggling today with being misgendering! After spending the day with my mother on Monday, who I know is never going to change irrespective of how many times I correct her on my chosen pronouns, but it’s the fact that she does it while speaking about me to other people while I’m in …
Misgendered by a friend
One of the problems with being trans is being misgendered. I get it now and again and if you go down the transitioning road so will you! Irrespective of which way you transition, male to female or a female to male transgender, people will either misrepresent your pronouns or use them against you. Whether they …
Dysphoria day
Alice’s Story – RIP Alice Litman
“Live free or die”
“Live free or die” is the motto of a website I found today as linking to this blog. I won’t name the blog as I will not link back to a vile anti pretty much everything site but I just found it pretty ironic that the message board motto is “Live free or die” yet …